I want rougher sex but I freeze when asking

I want rougher sex with clear consent, but every time I try to ask for hair pulling, choking, or being pinned down, I get embarrassed and act vanilla. I want the kind of sex where the conversation before and after matters as much as the heat. I am posting it here because the night feed feels like the only place where the words fit.

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