I get jealous of my partner's fantasies before I blocked them

I get jealous of my partner's fantasies even when they are honest with me, because I compare myself to people who are not even there. I know consent, privacy, and timing matter, but desire does not always arrive in a neat order. Maybe writing it here is safer than texting the person who would turn this into a real problem.

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