I want to use a vibrator with my partner while my phone was on silent

I want to use a vibrator during sex, but I keep pretending I do not need it because I am scared they will hear it as an insult. I want someone to ask directly, because I am tired of making my body translate for me. Maybe writing it here is safer than texting the person who would turn this into a real problem.

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