I want to use a vibrator with my partner after we said goodnight

I want to use a vibrator during sex, but I keep pretending I do not need it because I am scared they will hear it as an insult. Part of me wants permission, part of me wants restraint, and part of me just wants to stop pretending. I know this sounds intense, but pretending it is nothing has not made it disappear.

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