I want rougher sex but I freeze when asking before I lost my nerve

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Anonymous5/13/2026, 12:37:12 AM

I want rougher sex with clear consent, but every time I try to ask for hair pulling, choking, or being pinned down, I get embarrassed and act vanilla. The secrecy is part of the charge, and that is the part I do not fully trust. I am posting it here because the night feed feels like the only place where the words fit.

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