I want to be submissive in bed before I lost my nerve

I want to be submissive in bed, not powerless in real life, and I wish people understood the difference. I know consent, privacy, and timing matter, but desire does not always arrive in a neat order. Maybe writing it here is safer than texting the person who would turn this into a real problem.

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